L'importanza di saper ascoltare

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Ascoltare è importante e te lo spiego con questa storia

29/4/2014

Una cliente disse al proprio Life Coach "Mi sono innamorata di te"
"Davvero?"
"Si provo un grande amore"
"Che bello. E come ti senti?"
"Ti penso volentieri, immagino di conversare con te, esco felice dalle nostre sedute. Mi sento a mio agio quando condivido i miei sentimenti con te. Possiamo proseguire con la terapia adesso?"
"Non vuoi sapere cosa penso io in proposito?"
"No"

Quello di cui abbiamo bisogno è poter esprimere i nostri sentimenti. Siamo così condizionati da non sentirci più liberi di esprimerci in tutta onestà poiché abbiamo timore della reazione che il nostro sentimento potrebbe provocare nel prossimo. Ma quando troviamo una persona disposta ad ascoltare ci liberiamo di queste barriere e non abbiamo bisogno di ricevere alcuna risposta.

"il pesciolino alla ricerca dell'oceano"

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